Get Your Sexy Back

Emotional Safety: The Real Key to Deeper Sex and Lasting Intimacy

Episode Notes

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enough
• How polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energy
• What is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over time
• What are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connection
• Why safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.

If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.

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Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand
• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance
• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric
• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed

👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
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Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.