Get Your Sexy Back

The Erotic Reset: Why Pleasure and Play Are Medicine for Your Relationship

Episode Notes

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.

 

What you’ll hear in this episode:

✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy, vitality, and connection

✨ How play keeps polarity alive and brings back curiosity, teasing, and magnetism

✨ How erotic energy goes beyond the bedroom and how it fuels joy, presence, and aliveness in everyday life

✨ What are the practical ways to choose pleasure daily, from small rituals to intentional touch

✨ Why retreats provide the fastest “erotic reset” and how stepping out of autopilot into new practices that reignite passion

 

If your relationship feels flat or overly serious, this episode is your invitation to reclaim play, pleasure, and erotic aliveness together.

 

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS NOVEMBER 20–24 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

Here’s what you can expect:
🌹 Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
🌹 A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
🌹 Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
🌹 Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

 

👉 Say yes to your erotic aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book an Exploration Call to feel into whether this is your next yes
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

PS: November is filling. February is open. But the spark you crave? That starts the moment you say yes.

 

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.